Attitudinal Aspiration !!!

Attitude! Aspiration! Both are entirely different concept. Can anyone change the attitude of a person? The answer is simple; No.

One cannot change the attitude of a person. The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude will vary from each individual; it is inherited in each blood cells of a human. Attitude, to me, is more important than anything else.

ASPIRATION !! , the word itself sounds nice (wen u read it wit an attitude), the sturdy longing to attain something great. Everybody aspires thy own life. Ambition varies in each individual. one want to become a doctor, one want to become a good home maker, one want to become a Bill Gates. All will have their own Aspirations; it’s a goal that drives to success in life. We dream a position to be at, at a certain point of time. People have own milestones in life, it’s a like a pits stop in Formula one racing.

The tool that driving your aspirations is the attitude, for example no one wants to become a criminal or a murderer, its the attitude that drives them to do certain things and put them in a worse situation. We take another real time example, Ms.Dhoni young captain of Indian ODI. His aspiration is to win the one-day series against the mighty Australians. He wants to finish the best of three finals within two games. Here this is his aspiration. But aspiration alone cannot help you to win. It’s the attitude a perfect driver is needed to drive your aspiration towards winning the game. At last Dhoni men won the match within two games against the mighty Australians.Dhoni has the aspiration to win against Aussies and with the right attitude, he droves the entire team towards victory.

As already said Attitude and Aspirations are entirely different, but both are interlinked. Attitude talks about the mental discipline of the person; the attitude cannot be changed at any point of time. Attitude is inherited from their parents/guardians from the childhood. Doctor’s son wants to become a doctor that’s his attitude, father wants his son to become a doctor, he decides the attitude of his son, and after some period, it will become son’s aspiration to become a doctor and he will be having very strong attitude to reaching his goal.

Attitude makes a person to take possibilities. If a man watching a fire accident in a roadside, if he really wants to help the persons inside the house, he will be having very strong attitude to help them out. Come what may, he will put his entire energy to help the maximum. At the same time some persons don’t want to risk their life, they will be having very low attitude and very poor self confidence, these kinds of personalities will not have a very great aspirations in life. Either they might be rich or they might be happy with what they have. So here we can say that both Attitude and aspirations can make the personality. Both attitude and aspiration and can make a man rich and poor; can make a man a winner or loser.

Finally, Aspiration is a destiny; one knows that where they has to reach. If you know the place then your subconscious mind will slowly make you reach towards that. Subconscious mind is your attitude. If a person is a chain-smoker and wants to quit smoking for the advices, certainly he cannot quit smoking. It is himself who has to decide. He has to make his mind to accept it, if he strongly believes he can quit smoking (ATTITUDE), he will make some courageous steps to stop smoking (ASPIRATION). So Aspiration is the dream Island and attitude is the big ship to reach your destiny.