My First Silence...

Am in dark;
Complete dark;

My eyes can see nothing but lightning!!!

My ears can hear nothing but the
Rhythmic flow of raindrops
And the rocking sound of thunder!!!

I just closed my eyes…
And opened my heart!!!

I let my heart freely flow like the
Raindrops freely falling from the sky!!!

As usual, I was expecting a rapid flow of
Thoughts and words from my heart…

But,
To my surprise,
My heart cheated me with its silence…

I was wondering why!!!

Finally found that my heart was floating in dream…

Don’t wonder what.

Obviously, about u, my sweetheart!!!

Only then I realized,
No matter, how pleasing my surrounding is…
My heart cannot be distracted!!!

Usually,
Am called a talk-freak among my peer group,

But,
After my sweetheart’s entry in my life,
The depth of the silence in my heart,
Makes me understand
The depth of love, I have for him!!!

Trust me dear…
I wish to be silent
My whole life long!!!

Nothing but for talk only can keep me occupied…

But for now,
Its only the sweet thoughts of my sweetheart
That I wish to be occupied with!!!

This change in me, shows
The love I have for u, my darling!!!

After ur arrival,
I am loving my life!!!

Let's hold the politicians accountable

India is a democratic country but democracy is enjoyed only by politicians and big shots that support the politicians. India's costliest and biggest old-age home is the Lok Sabha and Rajya Sabha. Politics needs experience. It is not a simple task.

IT IS an accepted fact that politics needs experience because it is not a simple task. But experience must blend with energy and enthusiasm; only then, will a revolution be born. We, as citizens, welcome people who are old in age but for no reason should we support the inactive souls who rule the country for their own benefit. Indian politicians have the experience, exposure and age to take decisions and rule the country. But they are unable to bring a new immediacy to events. To which event our politicians will bring immediacy? Not to the long-lasting J&K war; not to the Iran-Iraq war; not to the Orissa drought; not to the Bihar floods, not to the serial bomb blasts or famine or poverty witnessed across the country; not to the sexual harassment of our women and not to the electricity problem faced by the people; but definitely to the dismissal of a government headed by the opposition party!

India is a developing country. But in what respects it is developing? In terrorism, poverty, famine and corruption. Can these things lie at the root of a developing country? Indian politicians remain quiet despite the rot that has set in. One of the factors which led to the rot setting in is the concept of globalisation. Globalisation literally means bringing the world closer so it can succeed in all spheres. But the actual globalisation has led to the US trying to eradicate countries like India and becoming a one-man army. Although conscious of this fact, Indian politicians are taking no action to contain the US. Politicians spare no sympathy for terror victims since the said victims are not related to them. Unless and until the victims are related to them, they will never react, even if the situation goes out of hand.

One of the routine headlines that the media carries as soon as a famine or flood strikes is ‘the member of Legislative Assembly (MLA) / CM / PM surveyed the affected areas from a helicopter’. Citizens, including senior citizens and newly-born babies are acutely affected by floods with no food, shelter or proper clothing being accessible to them. Women fight for their lives even if they do not have clothes to cover their modesty and dignity; all the same, the media will beam her plight a thousand times for obvious reasons. Another abominable activity is the son / daughter / wife of the politician concerned generously dropping food packets from the air as disdainfully as they drop rubbish into the trash bin. Poor people, in all their ignorance, thank the politicians generously for this gesture and elect them again.

This state of affairs can be changed only when the victims and the rest or in other words, all the citizens wake up and question the inactive politicians.

Citizens must start asserting their right to discard incapable politicians. No doubt, India has lots of talented people – amongst the teenagers and amongst the middle- aged people. But is the country ready to recognise such people and utilise their services? Politicians are least bothered. On the other hand, they indirectly encourage Indian talent to go abroad and slave away there. Citizens are constrained by their own financial needs and hence without thinking twice, they get ready to work abroad. Unless politicians are made to realise that any day they can be ousted from power, if they are not efficient, no revolution will come about. So, it is for the citizens to activate the politicians. Indian citizens must take the initiative and become politically conscious. Recently, the Pakistanis taught us a good lesson. Hope Indians will emulate them so the country can tread the right path under the guidance of leaders like Abdul Kalam.

Be a responsible citizen… be a part of a developed India….

(Thz article is also my contribution as a Citizen Journalist to Merinews website)

It's unwise to let down your parents...

SENIOR CITIZENS of India are being alienated - either in their own homes or in exclusive homes, called euphemistically, ‘old age homes’. Sons and daughters live with their parents until they start a family. Once they start a family, they start treating their parents as ones from another family.

The resultant separation has two dimensions to it. One is physical separation and the other is emotional separation. Indian law provides for the son or the daughter to acquire a new ration card once the son or daughter gets married. The ration card so issued keeps out the names of the parents. This is the first instance of separation.

The second is emotional separation, arising from the daughter-in-law ill-treating her in-laws. The son, instead of raising his voice to her, moves the parents to an old age home. If the couple is working abroad, the aged parents are moved to old age homes to ensure their safety.

The desire for nuclear family on the part of the young couples results in the alienation of the parents. For the youngsters, the immediate issue is their personal lives and not taking care of their aged parents. Youngsters must realise that they are what they are only because of their parents and other elders.

At a certain point of time, the teens begin to believe that they are capable of leading lives on their own. The attractive salary packages the youngsters are able to command even at the beginning of their career leads them to believe that they are superior to the previous generation. But in the process, they miss out on the positives that the emotional bonding between the two generations can bring about.

Youngsters must understand that the number of years they have been on this planet (or their age) is at best equal to the experience of the elders, in terms of the number of years. They must value the suggestions of their elders since such suggestions are culled from valuable experience. During childhood, parents make us comfortable by showering love, care and affection on us. They provide moral, economic and emotional support to the children.

But once the children take off, they leave their parents in the lurch. Factors such as modernisation, westernisation and globalisation lead our youngsters to lose their faith in the joint family system. Globalisation has led to our elders leading a lonely life. The ill-informed youngsters blindly fall for globalisation and insult the parents – the very people who have made the youngsters what they are. Youngsters must understand that they will become old too; the next generation may treat them the same way they treated their own parents. Father is the role model for the child. If a young father ill-treats his father, the child, having witnessed it at close quarters, will treat its own father the same way, once it grows up.

My dear youngsters please do not forget that what goes around comes around. Respect your elders. Value their experience. Share their feelings. Lend a helping hand to them. Remember, you are what you are, because of them.

(Thz article is my contribution as a Citizen Journalist to Merinews website)

Bezzzyyy, a beautiful beach!!!

Beauty of the nature is evident universally. When you walk down the elite roads of Besant Nagar, you can feel the cool breeze of the beach with spiritual fragrance in the surroundings.

Chennai has a lot of beaches but the specialty of Besant beach is the location where it is situated. Situated at a residential zone, the beach pulls in more equal number of family crowds along with the teens.

Teens prefer Besant on various grounds that amuse them and engage their time in a best possible way. Joggers and walkers prefer the early mornings pretty before the sunrise and the teens prefer the late nights even after the moon.

Kids will never fail to spot out the enjoyments like the different kinds of chotu-rides specially put up for them. Visitors who come with their family can choose to eat the readily burnt corns and the kids will never miss their favorite sweet tasting chocolate varieties, the Panjumitaais. In the night times, the darkness of the beach mixed with the fire sparkles while heating the corns gives a very interesting tone to the location.

The waters of the beach is preferred by a lot of teens for swimming and drenching themselves in the water enjoying the fun and frolics, not taking into account the atmosphere. Not only the teens but also the whole family drive themselves into the water, forgetting their age and status.

Lovers choose to spend their time peacefully, sitting in the sands and tasting the hot chilly bajjis and samosas. The north Indian people residing in Chennai visit Besant beach more often to taste their nativity snack, the Pani puris, bhel puris and the chenna masalas. They always claim that the taste they get in the Besant beach does justice to their native tastes. At just rupees 10 per plate, we can enjoy different varieties of lip smacking dishes.

Sitting in the border of the waves, admiring the motion of the waves and to lick an ice cream is something that none can hate to. This is one of the most admiring aspects of the Besant beach.

The lip smacking crabs and deep fried chilly fishes are certain not-to-miss menu of Besant beach. The center of the beach has a big welcoming tomb which provides shade to most visitors even during the hottest summer of Chennai.

Besant beach always witnesses all ages and all walks of people unlike other beaches. The parrot tarots are a most famous thing in the Besant beach. A whole lot of people can be found with a parrot in the cage pulling in people to check out their fortune.

Ladies sell beads and neck chains with different varieties and colors in affordable rates and adoring designs. Red, black and orange are few common colors of beads found in the beach. Other fashion ornaments like stylish earrings and hand bands are the most favorite of all college gals.

The scenic beauty of the beach along with the high end restaurants to the kaiyendhi bhavans makes the beach an appropriate outing spot for all walks of Chennaites.


(MY ARTICLE THAT GOT PUBLISHED IN TIMES OF INDIA)

கல்லூரி நாட்களே

கண்ணாடியில் விழும் பிம்பமல்ல
நம் உறவு - வழியின்றி பிரிய!!!

எனக்காக நீ!!!

பேச்சு வரும்; ஆயினும் பேச வரவில்லை;

பல நாட்கள் தேடிய உணை

என் கண்கள் சந்தித்தபொது!!!

எண்ணி எண்ணி பார்க்கிறேன்

ஆனால் எழுத முடியவில்லை...

எதுவும் தோன்றமலில்லை,

அதில் எதை தேர்வு செய்வதென்றது

புரியாமல்!!!

மூச்சு விடுபவன் எல்லோரும்

மனிதனல்ல - அந்த மூச்சிருக்கும்

வரை, தொடர்ந்து முயன்றுக் கொண்டிருப்பவனே

மனிதன்!!!

தூரலே வா...

ஏங்குகிறது பூமி...
பிளருகிறது நிலம்...
காத்திருக்கிறது கைகள்...
வேர்த்திருகிறது முகங்கள்...
எதிர்பாத்திருகிறது மனங்கள்...
ஒரு தூரலின் வருகையை!!!

வரவிருக்கும் தூரளால்,
குளிரப்போவது நிலங்கள் மட்டுமல்ல...
பல ஏழை விவசாயிகளின் மனமும் வயிறும் தான்...

எனவே வரவேண்டும் நீ!!!

Woman, a True Companion

A female, starting from birth, play diverse roles at each stage of life. First as a new born, she is celebrated and delighted as a daughter of her loving parents. She is taken best care by her parents and relatives and she is treated as the queen of the family. Parents devote themselves to her life and make her swim in pleasure by facilitating her with all the fun filled things. The tender lives in the warmth of the parents. She is blessed as a daughter.

Days pass by; the baby gal grows as a kid. From the world of parents, the kid enters the world of school which is accompanied by friends and games. Academics, co-curriculum, fun and frolic become the major part of the life. She performs excellence and wins awards and prizes in her schooling. She is friendly to her co-mates and plays with innocence. She is blessed as a student.
Next is the stage of a teen where the world is filled with friends. Life seems so interesting with electrifying experiences and exciting joy. In this stage, friends become the major part of life and friendships seem to be a best relationship in the earth. The caring words of the friend become the most lovable thing in the world. A gal, as a friend acts more caring and affectionate for her co-mates. She is blessed as a good friend.

Next is the role of a lover. To love and to be loved is life. Especially, to love a caring and affectionate gal is the best thing a man can get in the world. A gal, as a lady love, shows utmost care and affection and pours her deep love on her lover boy. She becomes ready to dedicate her life for the caring shoulders that she gets. She is blessed as a true lover.

The gal is ready to forgo her own identity in the association of Marriage, the essential part of life, for her lover boy. She becomes a part of her husband’s life making invisible her individual rights and freedom. She is gentle and compassionate as a wife.

The vital role of a woman is the role as the mother. A woman gets a wholeness in life on the day she attains her motherhood. Motherhood makes a woman feel her life a complete cycle. She dedicates her life to their children. Her mind is totally occupied by the imaginations of her children’s life. Mother is a beautiful relationship in the earth. None can replace the truth and purity of a mother. She is awake all the night to see her child sleeping peacefully. She is starving all the day to see her child eating serenely. She is praying all her life to see her child life successfully. She is blessed as a mother.

The fulfilled joy of life for a woman is to rest at home playing with her grand children. She becomes more affectionate and freed with her grand kids. She is blessed with a complete life.
So, woman in every stage of life lives for the people around her than for herself. So, every woman is respectable. Treat her with love and affection; she will do everything for you. Stop ruling women as she is not your slave but your true companion.
Be proud to be a woman!!!

Reading, as a Habit for children

Reading is Fun...

Especially, when being Children, Reading is an interesting and a fun-to-do thing and all that you need to do is to develop an interest towards it. Children’s face difficulties in reading, as they do not understand the difference between reading and studying. Parents have to take meticulous care in making the children understand the difference between the two. Reading for the academic purpose is completely different from reading as a habit. I am sure this makes sense. If not, read it again!

Parents must guide the children to divide their time for reading academics and non-academics. Apart from the time spent for academics, children have plenty of time which they are spending on versatile activities such as playing games, watching television, fighting with fellow children, refusing to have food and a lot more. Reading can be developed as a part of these entertaining activities, as reading is one of the best entertainments. Parents must inculcate the reading habit in their children, not as compulsion but as an involvement.

Children must be made aware of how interesting reading and writing are. The more a kid writes, the more he/she becomes expressive in the future. Reading is the foundation for writing. Only when we read, do we learn to write. Every speaker must be a listener, every writer must be reader.

Parents must find the right subject (I mention again. This is not the academic subject!) their children are interested in. Children must be given more exposure and knowledge towards the area of self interest, right from the childhood.

As I mentioned earlier, I have seen a lot of children who blindly hate reading as they are not able to clearly distinguish between reading and studying. At the first place, parents must bring in this awareness in their children. Reading is a healthy habit which every kid must (but not as a compulsion!) develop.

The next thing is the ‘Read Aloud’ habit. The habit of reading aloud will help the children to avoid fear of reading amidst groups. The ‘Read Aloud’ habit will also facilitate better pronunciation skills and concentration on reading. Unlike ‘reading by heart’, ‘reading aloud’ will not lead to distractions. Parents, pay little keen attention here! This concentration will be helpful for you when you make your children study their academics.

Parents can make available, materials such as newspapers, dictionaries, encyclopedias, facts and stories, science and inventions for their children to read during their free time. Parents can also sit with them and make the children understand the wonderful inventions and discoveries of the world. The more the parents admire and wonder at things, the children will replicate the same attitude which will help them to grow as active children.

Reading story books can be made interactive with the parents and the children by each of them imitating a character of the play. This will motivate the kids to read more with active participation.

Children must practice the habit of relaxed reading, which will help them develop a sustained interest towards reading. So children, as soon as possible, start to Read new things, Enjoy the new facts that you come across and Learn to discover the wonderful things of the world.

விழித்திரு இளைஞனே...

நாளைய பாரதம் இளைஞன் கையில்...

அதற்காக இன்று நீ உறங்கலாமா???

இன்றைய பாரதத்தை நீ கட்டி காத்தால் தானே...

நாளைய பாரதத்தை நீ வெற்றி நடை போடச் செய்ய முடியும்...

ஊழல்கள் பல உன் கண் முன்னே நிகழ...

நான் என்ன செய்ய முடியும் என்றிருகலாமா நீ...

உன் சாமர்த்தியத்தை பயன்படுத்தி சாதுர்யமாய் செயல்படு

இந்தியாவை நொடி பொழுதில் மாற்றலாம்...

இழைஞனே நீ நினைத்தால்...

சந்திர மண்டலத்தை சுற்றி வலம் வர வேண்டிய நீ...

சந்திரனை பெண்ணோடு ஒப்பிட்டு வர்ணித்துகொண்டே, பொழுதை கழிக்கலாமா!!!

சாதனை உலகில் சரித்திரம் படைக்க வேண்டியவன் நீ...

இன்னும் சலனம் கொண்டு மூலையில் முடங்கலமா...

என் தேச இழைஞனே, உலகில் இனியனே..

இன்னும் ஏன் பாலுறக்கம்...

புறப்பட்டு!! எழுந்து நட!!!

சாதனைகள் உன்னை பின் தொடரும்!!!